The art of gift giving is not easily mastered. Some men are notoriously picky while others have particular taste. So how does one generate thoughtful gift ideas for him? Obviously no one wants their half-opened gifts to collect dust in an unkept junk closet. So here are some tips, tricks and suggestions on how to gift thoughtfully to the guy who’s impossible to shop for — no matter the relationship.
Gift An Experience
For the person who loves to experience things live and in the flesh, a concert or live recording of a favorite tv show could be the perfect gift. Take inventory of the things that he invests a lot of time in, and consider how could you immerse him in those things a bit more intimately. If he loves Good Morning America gift him an experience of being a part of the live audience. This will be an unforgettable experience and you’ll become notorious for your thoughtful gift ideas.
Gift Something They Need But Won’t Buy
When it comes to thoughtful gift ideas, giving something that you know the person needs is an easy target. Many people have the mindset of while it would be nice to have, it just isn’t a necessity. With this gift you know the person will make good use of it and it takes the guess work out of it for you. If you have dreams of becoming a thoughtful giver make sure to listen attentively and take note when your loved ones make mention of the things they need.. or want!
Commemorate Your Relationship
Whether he’s a friend or a beau, giving a commemorative gift ranks high on the list of thoughtful gift ideas. You can easily give a stylish gift with matching bracelets or custom engraved rings. However, framed photos and hand written letters are considered to be equally as thoughtful. Whatever you decide, make sure your gift is aligned with the relationship you share.
Hand Written Cards
A finely scripted heavyweight paper is easily overlooked but can make all the difference when giving a thoughtful gift. Whether you decide to go the old fashion route of buying a hallmark card or writing one yourself. Make sure to write something meaningful to the man you’re gifting. You can easily elevate your thoughtful gift ideas by pairing a note briefly mentioning it’s intended use or what influenced you to buy it for him. And don’t worry if you have terrible handwriting, every quirky character counts.
Wrap It Well
Presentation makes a monumental difference when it comes to thoughtful gift ideas for him. Men are known to be simple creatures. So while they may not notice that their gift is wrapped in the Pantone color of the year. They will notice if you wrap it in their favorite color. Even if they don’t mention it aloud understand that subconsciously they took note and appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Gift Spontaneously
Sometimes you’ll stumble upon the perfect gift for a special someone in your life. If you feel it in your heart to get it for them, and gift it spontaneously, do that! Sometimes the best and most thoughtful gifts need no occasion at all.
“KISS”
One of the simplest ways to let someone know that you care about them is to give them their favorite things. You can do this by picking up someone’s favorite coffee drink and bringing it to them at work. Or you could surprise them with a favorite desert at home. These are simple and thoughtful ways to brighten anyone’s day. So keep it simple stupid.
Simple Gifts For Him.
Now if you’re still unsure of what to get him, here are some thoughtful gift ideas that he’s sure to love.
The Pet Owner
Everyone knows that with pets come odor so instead of gifting a can of Lysol try beautifully scented candle. Boy Scents has an array of elevated scents to suit the most particular of men. And the throw on these candles is amazing. That way his place smells better and you feel good knowing your gift is going to good use.
The Skincare Junkie
The skincare junkie more than likely has everything he needs for a radiant glow. But you could stock up his inventory of sheet masks with an affordable multi-pack from Amazon. Face steamers, gua sha stones and at home facial technology like the Foreo UFO 2 are also great if you feel like splurging. Even an at home spa night could be a fun and thoughtful gift!
The Fashionisto
Okay, I’ll admit… these men are hard to shop for. While they may consider their styles to be simple to understand, others are sure to disagree. So for this guy, it is best to accessorize him rather than trying to dress him. Accessories are an easy way to elevate any outfit and there are plenty of great ones you could purchase as a gift. However, a belt can also make a statement. Making it the perfect gift for the guy who’s hard to please. Keep in mind you would need to know his waist size, but it will pair well his favorite cuban heel Chelsea boots he always seems to be wearing.
The Guy Who Has Everything
For the guy who has everything I never suggest trying to get them something they don’t already have. Unless you already have something in mind my advice would be to give them more of everything. Things you know they love and use will absolutely do the trick. Examine their life, what is something they have and get great use out of? Could it use a refresh? Does it come in other colors? This guy is a consumer so just give him more things to try. However, if he’s an avid traveler a metro folio kit could also prove useful.
The Gym Bro
Wear and tear typically takes place with this person. So I suggest doing your research ahead of time with their sizes in order to give some of their more ratty gym clothes a refresh. Gym bags also tend to experience this problem. Whether they are old or insufficient. But if you’re looking for thoughtful gift ideas with a bit more spunk I’d suggest the trainer knit tops from O-Studio Design. These tops are suitable for working out and also look great worn casually. Upgrade his mirror gym selfie — he’ll appreciate it.
The Techie
If your thoughtful gift receiver falls victim to the harsh light of blu rays often, this may be the perfect gift idea for you. Blu ray glasses have come a long way and these days you can find a variety of fashionable frames. The Shy Guy from Bonnie Clyde is an elevated take on the useful lenses and can also be worn as sunglasses. We love a 2 for 1.
The Foodie
Ahh! The one that seems unreasonably easy to please. However, we won’t take the lazy route. Designing a food tour could be the most thought gift idea for this person and possibly in history. All you will need is a journal and polaroid camera. Take pictures of your food and experiences through the day(s) and document your thought’s on the dishes. When the tour is complete he’ll have a keepsake book of the experience and can even continue to document his future foodie journeys if he chooses.
The Chef
For the man that loves to be in the kitchen, this is the thoughtful gift idea for him. This recipe journal is perfect for documenting favorite recipes and new explorations. You can even customize the cover with their name to make it even more personal.
The Book Worm
The men that love knowledge for knowledge sake are simple to gift for. You can choose to be one of two thoughtful givers. The one who shares a book or the one who shares a bookmark. The safer option is obviously the bookmark, but a thoughtful page turner about how liberal arts will rule the digital world could also be nice. You decide. You know him best.
The Musical Genius
This gift is a bit more intricate, but if music is something that bonds you, this will be an unforgettable gift. Vinylify allows you to design a custom vinyl with your own tracks. With the opportunity to customize everything from the front and back cover to the vinyl shape and color itself this gift has the opportunity to be one of the most thoughtful gift ideas. You will have to be especially thoughtful with your song choices because each side records up to 10 mins but it will make for a great story for the two of you in hindsight.
The Home Body
He may opt out of plans often but we love him none the less. For the man who loves his couch and blanket this may be the perfect gift. While not the most exciting of thoughtful gifts, neither is a weekends worth of Jersey Shore reruns; but I digress. This man loves his slides and the least we can do is spice up his life with a new color.
The Gamer
Much like the homebody this guy loves his chair; but there might be a little lights and camera action as well. If you’re looking for thoughtful gift ideas for a gamer an HD streaming camera could be the answer. Even if he isn’t a famous twitch streamer he can at least have some clear video when gaming online with friends.
The Artist
Art museum exhibits can be magical but when you can bring it home and set it on your coffee table, that is thoughtful giving. If you can find a beautiful book that fits the interest of your person well this could be a great gift. In this hardcover Toyin Ojih Odutola explores the complexity of race, wealth, and class through storytelling and multimedia drawings. I would say more but their work speaks volumes.
The Minimalist
While men are relatively simple, some are simpler and don’t want gifts. He probably doesn’t shop. He already has what he likes and doesn’t want more. So for this man keep it practical. While I’m sure he already has a wallet, if he doesn’t have a thin one that can easily fit flat into his front pocket for the occasional evening drink. That’s his gift. There’s nothing else to say.
The Curator
Some us just love beautiful things. And for things we once rendered useless, if you make them beautiful we’ll happily make a place for it. A rippled bedside carafe could be the finishing touch to the fine-toothed home of the curator. This will be a thoughtful gift for the ages and I’m certain it will see all of his.
The Outdoorsy Type
Here’s what you need to know about the “Outdoorsy Type of Guy”, he already has it. There’s no need for more. There’s no need or alternatives. If it was necessary and useful it’s already been purchased. Also practical in nature these men don’t look to have excess. Thoughtful gift ideas for him will need to complement his adventurous spirit but in his everyday life. If he lives in the city but loves the outdoors a rolltop rucksack could be the perfect gift. This waterproof bag also features a side access laptop pocket and is perfect for cyclist. So no matter how the hobbies evolve this bag can stand the test of time.
The Eco-Friendly
For our eco-friendly friends it only seems appropriate to suggest reusable shopping bags. While I may only now be realizing the contradiction behind that statement I will give you this. Use your discernment. It’s probably not a great idea to buy this for the person who already has reusable shopping bags. Because that would be wasteful to buy more. But! If you know the guy in your life is working toward reducing his global footprint and hasn’t taken this step yet, a few reusable shopping bag could be the perfect thoughtful gift.
